Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Wordless Wednesdays: And this is?

Junior J is prolific when it comes to drawings. He churns out a couple of pieces a day, and we've noticed he's now started connecting shapes/colours/details of real objects with his drawings. We no longer get random orange squiggles that are supposed to be a volcanic eruption. He matches colours (spot the banana, he even added the black tips!)... 

He drew everything on his own.
Including the puffer fish (bottom right, partially cut off in this photo).
But I had to hold his hand to do the labelling.

He's able to observe and include details, like the markings on his dinosaur toy.

I drew the outline of the dino with him.
He added the body markings and claws, and the additional background.

He's also started asking us to guess at what he is drawing:


Junior J: Guess what is this, mama?
Me: Erm, a bird?
Junior J: No, its not a bird!
Me: Hmm. A plane?
Junior J: No, not a plane!
Me: Ok I give up, you tell me.
Junior J: No you can't give up!
Me: Erm, a flying reptile?
Junior J: No no no! (getting very frustrated)
Me: I don't know! Please tell me?
Junior J: No I can't! Its a secret!

Ok, so can anyone tell me what on earth this is?

Updated (a day later): So I had loads of guesses over on FB about his drawing, ranging from the Sydney Opera house, to the Batmobile. Lots of us were thinking of airplanes, but it turned out (I managed to squeeze an answer out of him today) it was a sailing ship! Hmmm...

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Thankful Tuesdays: Much needed rest


I came down with a cold over the weekend. Initially we thought it was just sinusitis from all that sneezing, but a nasty hacking cough followed. So yesterday, I thought it was best that I took a break from all the packing and cleaning... and ended up napping in the morning and in the afternoon (which was only possible because my FIL was around to babysit the boys). All I managed to do was to cook lunch, while my mum helped by bringing dinner over for us. The rest really helped, since the cough has improved, so I think it was really just sleep that I needed... something that wouldn't be possible if not for all the help from parents.

So this week, aside from help, we're thankful for:

:: God's love that never fails.

:: Being able to do messy art at home. The boys haven't been painting for a long long time since our paints were all packed up. They were really glad when the paints came out this week! (So much so that Baby J has been demanding "painting!" after every meal. 

He spent a long time trying to clip these clothes pegs on himself,
then taking them off, and clipping them on again.

:: All those little milestones achieved by baby J. He's been talking so much, and stringing words into sentences (and of course, using those sentences to demand for things like raisins!). It never fails to amaze me when I see how they learn and play.

He still refuses to write on his own.
But at least now he asks me to hold his hand to write stuff!

 :: Junior J who has been achieving some milestones too. He's been more willing to write, and is starting to form letters on his own using paint. He has more or less dropped his nap these few days, so I've been spending the time pouring over books or drawing with him. I'm really enjoying this one-on-one time with him while baby J naps.

What are you thankful for this week?

Mum in the Making

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Friday Five: Lessons from an old kitchen

We've been enjoying our new kitchen! Before we give you a tour, I thought it would be interesting to show you how our old kitchen looked before we renovated it (we were packing up, hence the emptiness and messy counter):


It served us reasonably well for the past eight years or so, and saw us through many gatherings and the arrival of both our boys. Here's some lessons we've learnt from our first time kitchen reno:

:: Getting the cheapest contractor that you can find may not be a good idea:
We were on a tight budget when we first renovated our home. After all, there were all the wedding expenses, plus we had not been working for too long. So we opted to get a really cheap contractor, and worked with one of those large companies to get our place done. Unfortunately, we were assigned to an inexperienced young man (even younger than us!), who managed to mess up quite a few aspects of the renovation.  It came to a point that when he assured us "No problem!", we started expecting some problem to crop up! Also, the company used lower quality materials for the renovations, which didn't last the test of time, so we learnt that sometimes its better to pay a little more, for stuff that would last longer.

:: Cabinet heights are important:
One major booboo our contractor made was not factoring in the thickness of the countertop, resutlting in the counter being too high. By the time we found out, it was too late for them to redo all the cabinets, so we had to live with a higher countertop. It did cause some inconvenience, since I found it difficult to reach the higher shelves of the wall cabinets as well as the upper level of the dish rack (I had to tip-toe sometimes!), and my mum would actually resort to doing the dishes while standing on a step-stool. Because of the raised counter, they discovered that the hob to hood distance was not optimal, so they had to cut out the counter section which held the hood and lowered that section, which made cleaning all those extra greasy corners harder. 

:: If you are using solid surface countertops, avoid dark colours:
The material that was used for our countertop was of lower quality (our current interior designer remarked that some parts of the counter were not sealed and polished properly), and scratches started showing up within a year of using the kitchen. In general, scratches show up more prominently with darker colours, and this is also the case for water marks. I'm not sure if this would be the case for better quality solid surface counters, but we've been advised to use granite or quartz for our counters as these are scratch resistant. 

:: Ensure your rubbish chute is working well:
During the renovations, the workmen only inserted the chute into the wall, but failed to seal the sides shut. We kept wondering why the roaches kept visiting us! When we found out, we sealed the sides with silicon glue. Unfortunately, the cover of the chute was a little jammed, so some days the chute was accidentally left ajar, which meant the occasional roach still crept in. We did try to ensure that we always closed the chute properly, and got rid of the roaches using roach bait, however, during the one year that we were overseas (our bible study group still met at our place when we were away) the roaches came back. And they more or less left their mark on the cabinetry (and oh gosh, the smell that refuses to go!), which was one reason why we decided to overhaul the kitchen when we returned. 

:: Drawers might provide better storage than shelves:
We had a combination of drawers and shelves for the lower cabinets, and found that drawers worked better for storage, since you could access the things stored at the back. However, on hindsight, it is a worthwhile investment to pay for better quality runners for the drawers (eg. those from Blum), since these are usually the first things to spoil due to the high amount of usage. We were given the ordinary runners, which jammed after awhile. Also, if you're planning to put heavy items (eg. pyrex/ovenware) in the drawers, plan to put them in the smaller drawers and not the larger ones.  

How about you? Any kitchen renovation tips to share? 


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Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Wordless Wednesdays: And its a...


And no, I'm not talking about the Royal baby over here!

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Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Thankful Tuesdays: As the dust settles

Whew! Last week, we moved back to our home, after the kitchen was more or less done up. There's was still lots of things to unpack, and the house was more or less a disaster:


And to top it off, our stuff from Germany suddenly arrived yesterday!


So I've just been trying to clean and unpack in between the regular chores and cooking. All of us are rather affected by the cupboard fumes and dust, even though we did a through cleaning of the place before the kids moved back. Most of us had allergic rhinitis, and the hubs ended up with sinusitis too, but thankfully everyone is getting better as the fumes slowly disperse over time. 

As the dust settles, and we try to ease back into a regular rhythm, I am just so thankful we have a place we can call home. We're thankful that we could bunk at my parents' place during the past two months. And I am grateful that the FIL is currently staying with us, and helps out with the chores and babysitting. He's been amazing, bringing the kids down to the playground every morning, helping to feed and bathe the boys, lending a hand with the cleaning.  


I am thankful for the little pleasures of home. Of ice cold popsicles on hot days, never mind the sticky floor that results afterwards. Of being able to do messy play and not worry about messing up someone's house.


I'm thankful for the little moments that make me smile.


What are you thankful for this week?


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Thursday, July 11, 2013

Friday Five: Renovation ramblings #1

Ok, so enough whining about how we can't wait for the renovations to be done. Here's some of the lessons we've learnt through renovating our home this round:

:: We opted to live with the existing toilet bowls when we first moved into our place eight years ago, so we didn't need to choose new WCs then. This round, we had to replace them (both broke, probably from old age!), and we were clueless about how to choose from the dizzy array of shining white displays. So aside from looking at the water consumption during flushing, we just tried to get something that came as a single piece to reduce the number of grooves I had to wipe when I washed the toilet. And the advice one saleslady gave us? You have to sit on the WCs to test them out, to see which was most comfortable for you. So we did, and even Junior J helped us in this aspect. Her advice was sorta useful, since you'll find out which had wobbly seats or uncomfortable ones!

Testing taps, showers and WCs got boring after awhile.
Then it was the Endless Alphabet app for him. At least he was learning new words!

:: We didn't do any tiling work previously too, save for replacing the toilet floors which were stained beyond cleaning. This round, we opted to redo the tiles for the kitchen and both toilets, so we had to hunt for tiles. Our interior designer (who acted more as a contractor actually) did try to scout for suitable tiles, but we ended up having to pay a visit to many tile suppliers before we could find the correct tiles (Oddly enough, it was the plain bright yellow square tiles that proved to be the hardest to find. Most places had the strangest designs, like bright blue retro circles, but no plain yellow tiles!).  Soon Bee Huat seemed to have the best range in terms of aesthetics and sheer variety. And tile shopping is probably one of the most interesting reno-related excursions for a four year old, since there are loads of colours and textures to explore (Junior J was stuck really long at the mosaic section!):


:: There's a rather surreal feeling moving out of your beloved place, and coming back to see your kitchen in this state:

The kitchen after all the old, roach-infested cabinets came down.
Long story about those roaches, am just glad they are gone!

:: Hacking and drilling makes for tonnes and tonnes of dust. We (and the workers) have been mopping and the floor still permanently feels like we're at some beach.

The kitchen, after all the tiles were hacked. 

:: Expect for delays and mistakes. Everyone we spoke to for recommendations all had contractors who made mistakes, and had delays. I guess its something inevitable (but nevertheless, undesirable!), seeing that the contractors are not around all the time to supervise the workers. Our previous contractor made major booboos that couldn't be rectified (he fabricated the kitchen cabinets too high), but thankfully this round there were no major mistakes that couldn't be corrected.


The workers actually mixed up the kitchen and toilet wall tiles and mounted them wrongly, but this was discovered early and so could be fixed. Cabinets were drilled up, only for them to find out that their doors couldn't open, and had to be taken down, and the tiles replaced. They painted our entryway the wrong colour, and the cabinetry was delayed for a week. The air con pipe got blocked off, resulting in a dripping air-con. So there were delays and lots of corrective work involved, but I'm glad there were no major mess-ups. We're looking forward to seeing everything done, hopefully by the end of this week!

How about you? What are your experiences with renovating your home? Do you have any tips to share?


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Tuesday, July 9, 2013

In search of baby soft skin


We had it pretty easy when it came to caring for Junior J's skin. His was low-maintenance, and nothing bothered him, save for the occasional mosquito bite. So we were at a loss initially when we had baby J, who had very sensitive skin and suffered from eczema. Hot weather made his eczema flare up. Exposure to cold, dry air during winter made it worse. It was quite a challenge, trying to calm his irritated skin, and my heart really hurt to see him scratching! Baby soft skin became a goal for us, and easing his discomfort was a top priority when it came to caring for him.

So here's what we found was useful in caring for baby J's sensitive skin:

:: Go soap-free: Soap strips the skin of moisture, which is a must for skin that is prone to eczema, so its best to use a soap-free bath cleanser (eg. Cetaphil or Physiogel).


:: Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize:
A good friend whose daughter suffers from eczema slathers coconut oil on her daughter before her bath, and also recommended us an oatmeal-based bath oil for baby J's baths. Aside from using the bath oil, we've also had to moisturize his skin twice a day using an oatmeal moisturizing cream.

:: Be mindful of external triggers:
We've had to watch out for external triggers that might cause the boy to rash up. Thus far, we know of a few triggers: chlorinated water (more than half an hour of water play makes him flare up!), hot weather, and dry air. I know of others that rash up due to dust, or exposure to certain chemicals, so we've been careful to try to identify those triggers and minimize their effects. 

He's one curious fellow and explores everything.
We just have to watch and be mindful!

:: Reduce chemical exposure:  
We try to reduce the kids' exposure to chemicals, especially when it comes to household cleaning products. We've been trying to reduce the amount of laundry detergent we use (by substituting some with baking soda), and we try to use products that are as natural as possible. In terms of fabric softeners,  Comfort Ultra Pure has been the most suitable thus far, since it is formulated for delicate skin. With  Baby J's sensitive skin, soft, comfortable clothes are a must. This softener is shown to be safe to use even for babies, which is just the thing we need!


:: Give skin time to heal: 
We do use steroid creams occasionally on the stubborn spots that refuse to go away, just to help calm those areas down and let them heal.

With all these steps, we've found that baby J's eczema is more or less under control, and we're enjoying cuddling up with his baby soft skin and tickling his toes. But I guess not for long, since he's already lost his baby smell and is on his way to being a rather feisty toddler!


Thankful Tuesday: We will survive

We're now into our 6th week of home renovations. What was supposed to be a four week thing has now been extended, due to various mistakes and changes. We've shifted out from our place, to my mum's, some time after moving back from Germany. Then we moved up to Penang to stay with the in-laws for abit, and then now its back to my mum's. 

I must admit, I am very tired. Tired especially of changes and of moving. Of packing and unpacking and packing and unpacking. And feeling rather guilty because I think the kids are also affected, especially Junior J, who doesn't deal with changes that readily. The lil boy just came down with a tummy bug, and gave us quite a scare yesterday when he couldn't seem to keep any food or fluids down. 

But I really thank God that He's given us enough strength and grace to go through all that has passed. We've survived the 8 hour plus car ride up and down to Penang, with the two boys fidgeting away at the back with Mama wedged between both their car seats (I think if I was a little more pregnant, I wouldn't have fit behind!).

A tired Junior J showing us his fearsome dino claw. He was too tired to roar properly.

We've weathered through the haze. We've survived all the moving and packing. God has seen us through thus far, and He will continue to see us through. So I am thankful. That we're reaching the end of this period. That we can look forward to moving home soon.

I am thankful that we can rest in His loving arms. And can also count on family and friends for their helping hands and prayer.

Boys having fun with Ah Kong at the SAM.

I am thankful that we do not need to worry about the essentials, of food, of shelter, of general good health. And yes, I keep reminding myself, we will survive, with God's grace.

What are you thankful for this week?
Mum in the Making

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Friday Five: Great expectations

I really can't believe that June has sped by and that we are nearing the end of the first week of July! Perhaps its been all that moving all around that has made time really speed past.


:: This week, we brought the boys to the butterfly farm in Penang, and I think they enjoyed themselves. I know Junior J had a whale of a time running about, and mustered the courage to touch a few butterflies. Baby J even accidentally caught one, and kept exclaiming "but-fly farm! fly fly fly! Poke but-fly!". The older one was also rather fascinated with the displays showing various butterflies in the different stages of their life cycle. I guess there is always something amazing, seeing such a transformation occur.


:: Junior J has a similar fascination with baby #3's development. He would ask me about how big the baby is currently, and I would tell him based on the details given in the "What to Expect: Pregnancy" app that I have on my phone. He mulls over the descriptions (eg. that baby is the size of a lemon) and tries to measure out the lengths with his fingers.

:: The big boy also has an interesting theory about the baby's gender:
Me: Would you like a brother or a sister this time, J?
Junior J (after pausing for thought): Boys have short hair right?
Me: Yes they usually have. Why?
Junior J: Then the baby must be a boy, since we didn't see any hair when we saw baby on the screen!

He was most tickled to find out that some babies are born bald.

:: For us, we're thinking that a little girl would be nice. (And I know this sounds silly, but Mama would like very much to scrap in pink, and dabble a little in playtime not involving wrestling and roaring dinosaurs.) Whatever the case, we're just thankful for the third little one. After all, boy or girl, children really are blessings from God.

:: Amidst all this baby talk, baby J has also clued into his new sibling. He pokes my belly, exclaims "baby inside!" and proceeds to smush his head into my belly repeatedly, in his version of giving kisses to the baby. That's only for a minute, before he gets distracted by Mama's belly button.

We're almost approaching the half-way mark for the pregnancy, so I guess we'll be finding out baby's gender soon!
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Wednesday, July 3, 2013

One of the most used tools in our kitchen...

... is the hand-blender. It has been a life-saver especially when it comes to preparing baby food! When Junior J was a baby, we bought all sorts of weaning tools to prepare his food, only to abandon them for a hand-blender. After all, it didn't make sense to spend lots of time and elbow grease mashing food to a pulp when it could be easily done with the press of a button. And since an immersion hand-blender could be placed directly into the pot/bowl containing the food, it minimized washing up, which was another plus point. I would steam things up using those stainless steel cups, and then pop the hand-blender in to have baby J's meal ready in minutes.

However, there was one aspect I didn't quite like about our hand-blender, which was that the section that was immersed in food (except for the blade of course) was made of plastic. I wasn't too comfortable with the thought of placing plastic parts into piping hot food. Which was why I was delighted when I was given the chance to try out Philip's new Jamie Oliver hand blender, since it featured a metal bar and a titanium-coated blade.

I put the blender to the test for something I usually struggle with: mashing potatoes. Up to now, I've yet to find a good potato masher, and it always takes quite a bit of time for me to get the potatoes to the nice smooth creamy consistency that you get at restaurants. However, with the blender, which boasts a powerful 650W motor, my potatoes went from this...


... to this in less than a minute (after adding butter and cream of course).


And the verdict from our little foodie (who coincidentally shares the same name as the great cook behind the blender)? He approved, and proceeded to eat and make a huge mess as usual!


Another plus point for this hand-blender are the accessories that come with it. The chopper (see below) is useful for preparing pestos and mincing garlic and onions (I'm thinking about making chilli sauce with this!), while the whisk would probably come in handy for batters and whipped cream. A handy one litre beaker is also provided, perfect for storing batter or smoothies in the fridge until they are needed. Finally, I must admit the blender does look good. How often do you get an appliance that has a pretty cornflower blue (which is supposed to be Jamie Oliver's favourite colour) power cable and plug?


I've not been able to do much cooking this month, since we've been staying with either my parents or my in-laws... but I'm looking forward to our new kitchen and trying out new recipes with this blender! This recipe for creamy broccoli cheddar soup is probably one of the first things I will try when we move back.

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